The Changeling

Reading List

The Changeling is perhaps our most popcultural-collage deity, but I hope you will recognise that the power of her myth is already everywhere in our culture. I’m sure you can think of more, and I welcome any ideas you have in the comments. The below list combines a Reading List, and Other Spirits:

(This article was written in 2021 for the Wordpress, as a very initial establishing sketch. Nowadays, I keep all new books on the Reading List; but for posterity, here's the original list)

Fairies

Fairy Tale Princess as Initiate's Death-And-Rebirth Myth

Florence Harrison; another favourite

Curious Girl Goes Missing

Image by Benoist Demoraine

Women Who Break the Rules, Say No, Are “Too” Curious, and Claim Their Power

Edward Robert Hughes - 'the Princess out of School'

They danced down the stairs, into the street, and out through the gate of the town. Dance she did, and dance she must, straight into the dark woods. She was terribly frightened, and tried to take off her shoes. She tore off her stockings, but the shoes had grown fast to her feet. And dance she did, for dance she must, over fields and valleys, in the rain and in the sun, by day and night. It was most dreadful by night. She danced over an unfenced graveyard, but the dead did not join her dance. They had better things to do.

Hans Christian Andersen – the Red Shoes

Masaaki Sasamoto -'Mandala of the Rise and Fall'

Girl falls in love with a Fairy/must free her enchanted lover

Innocence/Experience

Sad Dead Girls

Kate Bush - 'Wuthering Heights'
“I’ve dreamt in my life dreams that have stayed with me ever after, and changed my ideas; they’ve gone through and through me, like wine through water, and altered the colour of my mind.”

1960s dreamgirls the singer is never going to actually talk to

etc. If my memory serves, the 1960s trope is known as 'the Darling girl', after the 1965 John Schlesinger film about a carefree, unsettled, liberated young woman in Swinging London - in many ways, just the precursor to the Manic Pixie Dreamgirl in the 00s

Despite generally envisaging Fencrafts spirits as appearing in many genders, the Changeling myths are generally extremely gendered. Some possible male variants include:

It says more about us, than about the Changeling, that these images are hard to find (and similarly, the almost complete absence of people of colour in suitable images I’ve found so far)

I also want to stress the non-gendered nature of spirits in Fencraft. Men of all kinds would benefit if society understood better that they, too, can be made vulnerable, have need to take ownership of sexual shame and autonomy, discover what it is that is their delight, and have it truly recognised that they have a right to no and choose celibacy. Additionally, its undoubtedly true that the Changeling trope is often powered by the artists sexalisation of the figure of young woman; but men have rather a different problem, and while we wouldn’t like to see these predatory ideas transferred over to young men, there is definitely an under-sexualisation, of men rarely being able to experience themselves as beautiful and desireable, that the Changeling perhaps addresses.

Regardless of our own genders, sexualities or experiences, the Changeling calls on us to follow and become her - not just to watch, but to join the dance.

The Changeling pulls on such common themes in or folklore that she’s comparatively easy to playlist – I’m adding songs, and tweaking their order, here.

“Ever drifting down the stream
Lingering in the golden gleam
Life, what is it but a dream?
Children yet the tale to hear
Eager eye and willing ear
Lovingly shall nestle near.
In a Wonderland they lie,
Dreaming as the days go by,
Dreaming as the summers die”

Lewis Carrol